January 2026
Fragments with children, in simple everyday moments.
Nothing to teach, nothing to guide — just being together.
1
No Position to Stand
不再需要
成为一个“怎样的母亲”
角色仍然在
但没有人站在里面
No longer a need
to be a certain kind of mother
The role moves
but no one stands inside it
2
Touch and Release
需要时，说话
需要时，回应
像借用一种语言
用完就放下
When needed, words come
When needed, responses happen
Like borrowing a language
and putting it down
3
In It, Not Inside It
在关系里
在生活里
在孩子的世界里
但不再进入
那个“我是谁”的位置
In relationships
in life
in the child’s world
but no longer entering
the place of “who I am”
When Movement Happens
如果事情把我带进去
动作自然发生
没有准备
没有决定
If life moves me into it
action appears
No preparation
no decision
4
Nothing to Process
社交之后
没有需要消化的部分
事情走过
就走过了
After meeting others
nothing remains to process
It passed
and that is all
5
The Field Around Children
孩子在玩
没有被引导
没有被解释
成人在
但不进入中心
Children play
without being directed
without being explained
Adults are there
but not at the centre
6
A Subtle Distance
不是远离
只是没有黏住
这一点点距离
让一切更真实
Not distant
just not sticking
This slight space
makes everything more real
7
After Effort Falls Away
曾经事情顺利发生
像是被称为“显化”
后来发现
那只是放手前的一段过渡
Things once flowed
what some would call “manifestation”
Later seen
as a transition before letting go
8
Not Becoming
没有要成为谁
也没有要带领谁
如果被问
就说一点
然后回到安静
No need to become someone
no need to lead anyone
If asked
something may be said
then back to quiet
9
No Path to Hold
没有要走的路
也没有要避免的路
生活在发生
仅此而已
No path to follow
no path to avoid
Life is happening
that is all
With Children
不是在教
也不是在放任
只是一起在这里
让一天自然展开
Not teaching
not leaving them alone
Just here together
letting the day unfold
with children
things happen
and pass
nothing to hold
nothing to change